How to tell a cheater

1. leaves the phone in the car or turns it off
2. doesnt answer the phone when with you
3. doesnt introduce you to friends or family (cant because it would give it all away)
4. doesnt call you by your name, so there is no confusion
5. doesnt take you out, tries to eat in or goes to out of the way places
6. emergencies suddenly appear
7. whereabouts are unexplained
8. all of sudden many friends need favors or needs more time alone or away from you
9. jealousy shows up that was not there before (projecting on you the lack of trust we should have on them)
10. becomes obsessed with appearance and dresses up more than usual
11. frequently picks fights or accuses you of flirting when you are not
12. drinks or eats out with friends or for businesses
13. develops a new sports watching or other social activity that excludes you
14. claims to have to work late and looks for text messages
15.behavior changes are obvious enough for friends to start asking "whats wrong?"